Posted by: cpetway on: November 19, 2009
Wow, I had no idea that bronchitis could keep you down so long. I am now able to be up most of the day, but I have no energy and keep coughing like crazy. I can sit at the computer and see the screen clearly so that means I can get back to work!!!!! I am so happy, you just would not believe how tired I am of not being able to do anything.
So let ne update you on where things are and then I will get to todays true post. No one responded to the ATC Challenge. That is okay because this is a new blog and not read widely yet. Maybe next time. I have not finished my pieces. I plan to work on them this weekend and will post as soon as I have them done.
Most of my creative endeavors have been of the mental type while I have been ill. I have been going over all the things I need to do before Thanksgiving and realizing it will take a miracle to get it all done. I will need all the creativity I can muster to accomplish my to-do list. I’ll keep you posted on how everything is going.
Today, I got to go out of the house for a little while and went in a new shop that has antiques, home decor and holiday decorations. I could tell that many of the things for sale were handmade. Seeing Christmas decorations has me fired up to get decorating. Last year my home received a major holiday overhaul so I don’t need to do for myself. I do have to help my Mom with her Christmas. She wants something new, so I can’t wait to get started.
Posted by: cpetway on: November 12, 2009
Just as I was starting to get back to normal emotionally, I came down with a sinus infection. Normally I can catch the symptoms early enough to avoid getting really sick, but not this time within a few hours of getting stuffy I was so ill it wasn’t even close to funny. I am still not well. In fact as soon as I post this I am going to find out if this might me something more than just sinus, because it has moved into my chest.
I am so sorry that I haven’t been here over the past week, but even now I am having trouble typing, my energy level is so very low. I will try to get to the challenge results tomorrow and get back on track Friday. Thanks for your patience.
Posted by: cpetway on: November 12, 2009
This is the post for November 5th.
Today as I repeated a task for the seemingly infinite time (and complaining to myself about the lack of assistance from my family in making this easier) I realized that this was beyond upsetting since I have complained, discussed, talked about, threatened, and had a fit over the lack of effort my family puts into helping make a cleaning task easier for me to complete by just doing a little work. I determined that they not only didn’t listen (or maybe they don’t hear) to what I want and why I want their help, but that they also don’t respect me for doing the cleaning and upkeep. They do not care how it gets done as long as they don’t have to be involved.
Of course when the first person arrived home I asked them a question and they didn’t bother to answer, they just talked about something else. Well, that was it with the not listening. I had enough. Angry was an understatement, but I didn’t take it out on this person. In fact, I didn’t really say much at all to anyone, which is very strange for me. And no one really said anything. My husband did ask if I wanted to talk about what was bothering me, but I told him no. Why bother- he won’t actually hear me.
All of this just shut any chance at being creative up inside me. My emotions were in knots. I did finish a bracelet that I had started. There was no creativity because the design was already done. My family tends to leave me alone when I work, so it was a guaranteed escape from them for a short time.
Since starting this blog I had been feeling happier because I was able to accomplish something concrete each day and was keeping to the goal of this blog. After two days of being so emotionally strangled and not creating or blogging I was feeling terribly guilty at having let you down. I felt even worse because there was also a challenge going on. I almost decided to quit. However, I had to remind myself that everyone goes through tough situations and you just have to stick it out and move forward. So that is what I am going to do. After all this blog is not just about success, but also how you handle stress and failure. So back to work!
By the way, no I haven’t worked everything out with my family. A few days after this I told one of them I was going to take of the shoes I had on and wear ones that hurt my feet. This person was in the same room with me and responded with ‘I don’t blame you for changing into shoes that won’t hurt your feet.’ So you can totally forget trying to explain that the cleaning is to help me not because I think they should be cleaning. They will never get it.
Posted by: cpetway on: November 4, 2009
Here is a Thanksgiving project that will create a lifetime of memories. Purchase (or make) a small scrapbook with autumn inspired pages. Create one page for each member of your family. Leave a space for a tag and small photo.
Cut out and decorate tags that match each page. When you adhere your page elements leave room to tuck in the tag. The way I did it was to design the page, cut out all the elements and line them up
(including where to add in the tag) without gluing anything in place. If I was satisfied then I started gluing the elements from the bottom layers up. When I reached the layer with the tag I picked up both the element and tag together and flipped them over. I applied my glue to the edges of the element and around (but not touching) the tag. This will create a pocket to hold the tag in place.
Take your scrapbook and digital camera to Thanksgiving. Have each family member pick their favorite page, take out the tag and write on it what they are thankful for this year. Take a picture of each person. After the holiday print the pictures and add them to the page that each person filled in.
This is a great momento of a family gathering, a look at what was on their minds at the time and a picture of how they looked. In years to come you can pull out the book at Thanksgiving and read each persons tag.
A book like this can be made for many other occasions also, like favorite Christmas memories, favorite Halloween costume, favorite childhood memory (at Easter), happy wishes for a bride or new mother and many other reasons where you want to easily record an important day in someones life. All you have to do is change the pages to reflect whatever the event is.
Another great way to use this memento book idea is to make a book of your child’s school years. Use primary colors and stickers and stamps that are school related. When your child is small you can write down their favorite memory of school each year. When they are older, you can have them fill in the tag. You could even add a second picture of their best friend each year.
This momento book is very adaptable and can be used for many occasions. The great thing is that you can work on the project in advance. So get started for the fall and winter holidays, they’re creeping up on you faster than you think!!